Because we are born into the unknown, our first dilemma is whether we will be accepted or not. Depending on how we interpret our parents/caregivers' behaviour in the very first hours/days, we make gross assumptions that we bring with us to other situations later in life. These often occur when we begin something new - a job, a marriage, a country, a school... Just look back, you will see that your experience of a beginning will be more meaningful when you think about it in terms of your first experience in the world!
